How To Add Somone To Your Buddy List With Out Them Havin Your Name On Theirs
Now instead of using some program to add them, i found that if you add them, and right after you add them, boot them, and they will be forced off yahoo messenger before they actualy get tha conformation of it saying "ADD DENY And accept" well when they are forced off they finaly get it, and they have to hit one of those and when they do it will give you acess to them on your list but your not on thiers.
So just go to add, put thier name in, hit add, tha second you you hit that boot them...and there you go...they are on your list.....
.. enjoy